5 THINGS THAT ARE NOT THE SAME AS GOOD CHARACTER
1) GENEROSITY
A Man or Woman can be quite good at giving, they can be GENEROUS, and at the same time, DANGEROUS.
Do not be fooled, that he is always subbing for you, spending on you lavishly, that she is always sending you airtime doesn’t mean they are good for you.
Some people use GIVING as a MASK, or a bait, to cover up their true nature, and attract and earn trust, causing people to overlook red flags.
Proverbs 17:23 “A WICKED man taketh (giveth) a GIFT out of the bosom to PERVERT the ways of JUDGMENT (reality)”
A Good Man can give.
A Bad Man can give.
2) GOOD DRESS SENSE
Aunty, Suit is not Anointing
Uncle, Long skirt is not Fear of God.
Just because a lady doesn’t MAKEUP doesn’t mean she can’t MAKE TROUBLE .
Some ladies use MASCARA to cover their bad CHARACTER
Be Wise. Avoid “I thought he’s born again” don’t thought anything. WATCH.
3) PROFESSION/POSITION/TITLE
He’s a Marriage Counselor…
He’s a Youth Pastor…
She’s in the Prayer Band department.
TITLE is not MANTLE
She’s a Nurse..
He’s a Doctor
PROFESSION is not DISPOSITION
Be Wise.
4) BEING BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME
I’ve come to discover that some people have what we call “innocent face” or what we call “church face”
They naturally look harmless, and God fearing. You’d never suspect them of anything.
They look too cool, delicate and fine to be capable of harming a fly..
But I’ve come to discover that the popular mantra “looks can be deceiving” is not a joke.
He looks Peaceful…..okay oh
She looks God fearing…… May it be so.
Don’t conclude just by looks alone..
5) GIFTS
He can play the keyboard very well
She’s a good Sunday school teacher.
When he’s singing, angels will be falling. You forgot that lucifer was a choir master before.
A person’s abilities or capabilites by virtue of nature, is different from their abilities by virtue of the new birth (of the Holy Spirit.)
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Hear the Master of Wisdom
Matthew 7:20 “Wherefore by their FRUITS ye shall know them.”
FRUITS of the Spirit are the hallmark of a true Christian and a Husband/Wife Material. .
Not GIFTS.
Don’t be deceived.
Marriage is not a Talent Audition.
