MAN OR BOY?
Genesis 2:24 “Therefore shall a MAN leave his father and his mother, and shall CLEAVE unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
Marriage is for MEN, not BOYS
Being a Man isn’t about age, or beards..
Some People you call Men because they are 35 are just Boys with beards….
A Man is Willing to LEAVE His Father and Mother and CLEAVE to his Woman..
A Boy isn’t.
A Boy is more interested in getting into a ladies panties than he is in marrying her.
Even after marriage, he still CLEAVES to his Mother, CLEAVES to other ladies, side chics, CLEAVES to his drinking buddies at the beer Parlor.
He LEAVES the Wife he married and CLEAVES to other things..
A Man (together with his Wife) decide how things will be done in their Marriage.
A Boy Will run his Marriage on “this is how they do it in my place” “my mother/my friends said”
A Man Saves and Invests
A Boy Spends and Squanders
A Man is a PRAYER PARTNER
A Boy is a PRAYER POINT
A Man keeps his Life in order with little supervision
A Boy can’t keep his life (finance, emotions, spiritual, social) in order without supervision.
A Man wants to settle down and take on responsibilities.
A Boy is still having fun and isn’t ready to settle down yet, and would run from any responsibility, for example, the pregnancy that was his irresponsible doing in the first place
A MAN wants a WIFE
A BOY wants a GIRLFRIEND
A Man sees sex and thinks of pregnancy, kids, school fees, parenting.
A Boy sees sex and thinks of Fun and pleasure.
A Man takes care of his Wife
A Boy always needs his Wife to take care of him.
Marry a Man, and you become a WIFE
Marry a Boy, and you become a MOTHER.
.
.
Ladies, date Intentionally……..
Stop dating Boys who need to get a LIFE first.
Dating a boy will not bring marriage but misery.
Brothers, make adjustments… A lot lies on your shoulder. Rise up to the occasion.
